{"id":1134,"date":"2026-10-01T21:58:45","date_gmt":"2026-10-01T21:58:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2352365y.jpg"},"modified":"2026-10-01T21:58:59","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T21:58:59","slug":"2352365y-8","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/13-yil-sonra-eski-kocamla-karsilastim\/2352365y-8\/","title":{"rendered":"13 YIL SONRA ESK\u0130 KOCAMLA KAR\u015eILA\u015eTIM"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-1134","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2352365y.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2352365y.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130kiz o\u011fullar\u0131m alt\u0131n madalyalar\u0131n\u0131 almak i\u00e7in sahneye \u00e7\u0131karken Cihan&#8217;\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc mosmor kesilmi\u015fti! Ancak as\u0131l \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 olay hen\u00fcz ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6d\u00fcl t\u00f6reninin sonunda sunucu, o\u011fullar\u0131mla ilgili \u00f6zel bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yapmak \u00fczere yeniden mikrofonu eline ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda Cihan&#8217;\u0131n hayat\u0131 boyunca saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ek ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmak \u00fczereydi&#8230;<br \/>\nO an ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 anlatabilmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nce 13 y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine d\u00f6nmem gerekiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bug\u00fcn gururla bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m iki o\u011flumu b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken neler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 benden ba\u015fka kimse bilmiyordu.<br \/>\nCihan&#8217;la evlendi\u011fimizde hayat\u0131m\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 onunla ge\u00e7irece\u011fime inan\u0131yordum. \u0130kizlerimiz d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011finde mutlulu\u011fumuzun tamamland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Ancak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z hen\u00fcz bir ya\u015f\u0131ndayken kocam\u0131n i\u015f yerinden \u0130nci ad\u0131nda bir kad\u0131nla ili\u015fki ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendim.<br \/>\nBeni en \u00e7ok yaralayan ihaneti de\u011fil, yakaland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda s\u00f6yledikleri olmu\u015ftu.<br \/>\n&#8220;Jale, ben bu hayattan daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorum. Seninle s\u00fcrekli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n masraflar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ya\u015fayamam!&#8221;<br \/>\nBirka\u00e7 hafta sonra e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 toplay\u0131p gitti. Bo\u015fanma davam\u0131z sonu\u00e7land\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u0130nci&#8217;nin hamile oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendim. Cihan art\u0131k ba\u015fka bir aile kurmu\u015ftu.<br \/>\n\u0130lk aylarda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret edece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Ancak \u00f6nce ziyaretlerini erteledi, ard\u0131ndan telefonlar\u0131m\u0131za cevap vermemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Sonunda tamamen ortadan kayboldu.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e babalar\u0131n\u0131n neden gelmedi\u011fini sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Onlara hi\u00e7bir zaman babalar\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc bir insan oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemedim. Sadece baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n verdikleri s\u00f6zleri tutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131m.<br \/>\nO\u011fullar\u0131m\u0131n \u00fcniversiteye ba\u011fl\u0131 bir bilim merkezinde d\u00fczenlenen yar\u0131\u015fmaya kat\u0131lacaklar\u0131 haberini ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ise b\u00fct\u00fcn o zor y\u0131llar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 alaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissetmi\u015ftim.<br \/>\nAncak Cihan&#8217;la kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nereden bilebilirdim?<br \/>\n\u00d6d\u00fcl t\u00f6reninde o\u011fullar\u0131m sahneye \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 tutamad\u0131m. Doruk matematik, Yaman ise fizik alan\u0131nda alt\u0131n madalya kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Salondaki herkes onlar\u0131 ayakta alk\u0131\u015fl\u0131yordu.<br \/>\nTam o s\u0131rada sunucu yeniden konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<br \/>\n&#8220;Say\u0131n misafirlerimiz, \u00f6d\u00fcl t\u00f6renimizi tamamlamadan \u00f6nce sizlerle \u00e7ok \u00f6zel bir ba\u015far\u0131 hik\u00e2yesini payla\u015fmak istiyoruz.&#8221;<br \/>\nDev ekranda o\u011fullar\u0131m\u0131n foto\u011fraflar\u0131 belirdi.<br \/>\n&#8220;Bu y\u0131l yar\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131n tarihinde ilk kez ayn\u0131 aileden iki karde\u015f, iki farkl\u0131 kategoride T\u00fcrkiye birincisi oldu. \u00dcstelik bu iki \u00f6\u011frencimiz, geli\u015ftirdikleri ortak projeyle uluslararas\u0131 bir bilim organizasyonuna davet edildi!&#8221;<br \/>\nSalon yeniden alk\u0131\u015flarla doldu.<br \/>\nCihan&#8217;\u0131n aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Yan\u0131ndaki \u0130nci \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla ekrana bak\u0131yordu. O\u011fullar\u0131 ise ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ne e\u011fmi\u015fti.<br \/>\nSunucu s\u00f6zlerine devam etti.<br \/>\n&#8220;Ancak bu ba\u015far\u0131 hik\u00e2yesinin arkas\u0131nda herkesi duyguland\u0131racak bir fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k var. \u0130ki \u00f6\u011frencimizin de konu\u015fmalar\u0131nda \u00f6zellikle te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek istedi\u011fi biri bulunuyor. \u015eimdi mikrofonu kendilerine b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz.&#8221;<br \/>\nDoruk mikrofonu eline ald\u0131.<br \/>\n&#8220;Bug\u00fcn burada olmam\u0131z\u0131n sebebi yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z de\u011fil. Bizim \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilmemiz i\u00e7in kendi hayallerinden vazge\u00e7en biri vard\u0131.&#8221;<br \/>\nYaman karde\u015finin yan\u0131na yakla\u015ft\u0131 <\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":300,"height":200,"file":"2026\/10\/2352365y.jpg","filesize":23367,"sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"2352365y-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":8056,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2352365y-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"2352365y.jpg","width":300,"height":200,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2352365y.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":1133,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2352365y.jpg","filename":"2352365y.jpg","filesize":23367,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1134"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":1133,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}