{"id":1363,"date":"2026-10-08T22:54:52","date_gmt":"2026-10-08T22:54:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2.png"},"modified":"2026-10-08T22:55:05","modified_gmt":"2026-10-08T22:55:05","slug":"66666666-9","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/dul-babam-her-kadini-ayni-restorana-goturuyordu-garsonun-gosterdigi-fotograf-beni-sarsti\/66666666-9\/","title":{"rendered":"Dul Babam Her Kad\u0131n\u0131 Ayn\u0131 Restorana G\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyordu, Garsonun G\u00f6sterdi\u011fi Foto\u011fraf Beni Sarst\u0131"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-1363","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2.png'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"103\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2-300x103.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2-300x103.png 300w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2.png 756w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBu kad\u0131n kim?\u201d diye sordum. Duvardaki foto\u011frafta annemle babam\u0131n yan\u0131nda duran ki\u015finin y\u00fcz\u00fc neredeyse tamamen kaz\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Garsonun g\u00f6zleri masaya indi. \u0130\u00e7imde, y\u0131llard\u0131r ailemizin en sakin insan\u0131 sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m babama dair bilmedi\u011fim bir kap\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissediyordum. Fakat o kap\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131nda ne oldu\u011funu anlamadan h\u00fck\u00fcm vermek istemedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOnu benim anlatmam do\u011fru olmaz,\u201d dedi garson. Ad\u0131 Nesrin\u2019di. \u201cAma restoran\u0131n sahibi Gaye Han\u0131m burada. \u0130sterseniz konu\u015fabilir.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Az sonra k\u0131rkl\u0131 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir kad\u0131n mutfaktan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Elindeki havluyu tezg\u00e2ha b\u0131rakt\u0131, foto\u011fraf\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc anlay\u0131nca y\u00fcz\u00fc gerildi. Beni kap\u0131ya g\u00f6nderece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Bunun yerine, bo\u015f masaya oturmam\u0131 istedi. Restoran\u0131n \u00f6\u011fle haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrerken aram\u0131zda tuhaf bir sessizlik olu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFoto\u011fraftaki kad\u0131n benim annem,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBabamla nas\u0131l tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu soruyu Saffet Bey\u2019e sormal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Telefonumu \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131m. Babam \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fta a\u00e7t\u0131. Nerede oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6yleyince sesindeki ne\u015fe kayboldu. \u201cOradan \u00e7\u0131k,\u201d dedi. \u201cSenin bilmen gereken bir \u015fey yok.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk kez bana b\u00f6yle konu\u015fuyordu. \u00c7ocuk de\u011fildim; otuz alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m, kendi evim ve i\u015fim vard\u0131. Annemin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ortak olmak i\u00e7in s\u0131k s\u0131k yan\u0131na gidiyordum. Onun yeni bir hayat kurmas\u0131n\u0131 isterken, ge\u00e7mi\u015finden bu kadar habersiz oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen burada bekleyece\u011fim,\u201d dedim. \u201cGelip benimle konu\u015fman\u0131 istiyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yar\u0131m saat sonra kap\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. Babam i\u00e7eri girince Gaye aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131. \u0130kisi birbirlerine merhaba bile demedi. Babam\u0131n omuzlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6km\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. K\u00f6\u015fedeki masaya bakt\u0131; sanki orada kendisini y\u0131llard\u0131r bekleyen bir \u015fey vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu foto\u011fraf\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 neden tutuyorsun?\u201d diye sordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc annemin o gece orada bulunmu\u015f olmas\u0131, sen istemeyince yok olmuyor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gaye\u2019nin annesi Feraye, restoran\u0131n kurucusunun k\u0131z\u0131ym\u0131\u015f. Annemle babam evlenmeden \u00f6nce babamla ni\u015fanlanm\u0131\u015f. Bu bilgi tek ba\u015f\u0131na beni \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtmad\u0131. Herkesin benim do\u011fumumdan \u00f6nce bir hayat\u0131 olabilirdi. Ama babam\u0131n parmaklar\u0131n\u0131 masan\u0131n alt\u0131nda birbirine bast\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan, as\u0131l hik\u00e2yenin burada bitmedi\u011fini anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Gaye \u00e7antas\u0131ndan bir zarf \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. \u0130\u00e7inde eski mektuplar ve birka\u00e7 foto\u011fraf vard\u0131. Feraye\u2019nin bebekli bir foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcme koydu.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/png","media_details":{"width":756,"height":260,"file":"2026\/10\/66666666-2.png","filesize":105691,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"66666666-2-300x103.png","width":300,"height":103,"filesize":19952,"mime_type":"image\/png","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2-300x103.png"},"thumbnail":{"file":"66666666-2-150x150.png","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":13577,"mime_type":"image\/png","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2-150x150.png"},"full":{"file":"66666666-2.png","width":756,"height":260,"mime_type":"image\/png","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2.png"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":1362,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/66666666-2.png","filename":"66666666-2.png","filesize":105691,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1363"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":1362,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1362"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}