{"id":1376,"date":"2026-10-09T08:17:51","date_gmt":"2026-10-09T08:17:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf.png"},"modified":"2026-10-09T08:18:15","modified_gmt":"2026-10-09T08:18:15","slug":"vsf","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/kizim-onu-kurtaran-doktorla-evlendi-hamilelik-haberi-damatimin-sakladigi-sirri-ortaya-cikardi\/vsf\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131z\u0131m Onu Kurtaran Doktorla Evlendi: Hamilelik Haberi Damat\u0131m\u0131n Saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 S\u0131rr\u0131 Ortaya \u00c7\u0131kard\u0131.."},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-1376","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf.png'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"242\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf-242x300.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf-242x300.png 242w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf-825x1024.png 825w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf-768x953.png 768w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vsf.png 928w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 242px) 100vw, 242px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Eyl\u00fcl Karaca.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130smi ilk kez duyuyordum.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bu kad\u0131n kim?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fdi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anne, Eyl\u00fcl benim k\u0131z karde\u015fim.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Donup kald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ne?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;K\u0131z karde\u015fim do\u011fduktan k\u0131sa s\u00fcre sonra hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti. Ailem, onun g\u00f6bek kordonu kan\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131llar \u00f6nce ba\u011f\u0131\u015flam\u0131\u015f. Ben bunu bilmiyordum. Tedavi s\u0131ras\u0131nda hastanenin ara\u015ft\u0131rma komitesinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum. Kayna\u011f\u0131n ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamad\u0131m.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yani k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 senin karde\u015finden al\u0131nan h\u00fccrelerle mi iyile\u015ftirdiniz?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Evet. Ama as\u0131l mesele bu de\u011fil.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n sandalyesinden kalkt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130dil&#8217;in genetik testlerinde beklenmedik bir bulgu \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Tedavide kullan\u0131lan h\u00fccrelerin bir k\u0131sm\u0131 y\u0131llar sonra bile kan\u0131nda tespit edilebiliyor. Bu durum baz\u0131 testlerin yanl\u0131\u015f yorumlanmas\u0131na neden olabiliyor.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla bunun ne ilgisi var?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tutam\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130dil&#8217;in hamilelik taramas\u0131nda ciddi bir genetik hastal\u0131k ihtimali g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc. \u0130lk doktor bunun bebe\u011fe ge\u00e7ti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc. Fakat eski kay\u0131tlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131nca sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n tedaviden kalan ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 h\u00fccrelerinden etkilenmi\u015f olabilece\u011fini anlad\u0131m.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Derin bir nefes ald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yani bebe\u011fin hasta olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyorsunuz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hen\u00fcz bilmiyoruz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bir s\u00fcre ikimiz de konu\u015fmad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra as\u0131l soruyu sordum.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Peki neden bunu y\u0131llarca saklad\u0131n?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tedavinin uyguland\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemde baz\u0131 belgelerin eksik oldu\u011funu fark etmi\u015ftim. \u0130dil iyile\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n durdurulmas\u0131ndan korktum. Dosyadaki eksiklikleri bildirmedim.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6fkeyle aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sen doktordun Bar\u0131n! Biz sana k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 emanet ettik!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Biliyorum.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Biliyor musun ger\u00e7ekten? \u0130dil sana b\u00fct\u00fcn kalbiyle g\u00fcvendi!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ben de onu sevdim anne. Ama sevgim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rm\u0131yor.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O an kar\u015f\u0131mdaki adama tokat atmak istedim.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir korkum vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130dil&#8217;e ne s\u00f6yleyece\u011fiz?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ger\u00e7e\u011fi.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bu onu mahvedebilir.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yalan\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrsek daha k\u00f6t\u00fc olacak.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hastaneden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ellerim titriyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil&#8217;in \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>A\u011fr\u0131lar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden uyuyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 geceleri, odas\u0131ndaki oyuncak bebe\u011fe sar\u0131l\u0131p a\u011flay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, doktorlar\u0131n \u00e7aresiz y\u00fczlerini&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bir anne olarak tek dile\u011fim onun ya\u015famas\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi ise hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz tedavinin ard\u0131nda bir s\u0131r vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u015fam Bar\u0131n bizi evlerine \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme i\u00e7imi par\u00e7alad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anneci\u011fim, bebek odas\u0131 i\u00e7in renk se\u00e7iyoruz. Sen de yard\u0131m edeceksin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ona sar\u0131ld\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke zaman orada durabilseydi.<\/p>\n<p>Salona ge\u00e7ti\u011fimizde Bar\u0131n masaya bir dosya koydu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130dil, sana s\u00f6ylemem gereken \u00f6nemli \u015feyler var.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131z\u0131m \u00f6nce g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra kocas\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnce sustu.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n her \u015feyi anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Tedaviyi, saklanan kay\u0131tlar\u0131, ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 h\u00fccrelerini ve hamilelik testlerindeki belirsizli\u011fi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil tek kelime etmeden dinledi.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda yaln\u0131zca bir soru sordu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sen bunlar\u0131 evlenmeden \u00f6nce biliyor muydun?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Belgelerde eksiklik oldu\u011funu biliyordum. Ama kayna\u011f\u0131n karde\u015fimle ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yeni \u00f6\u011frendim.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ve bana hi\u00e7bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemedin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Seni kaybetmekten korktum.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil&#8217;in g\u00f6zlerinden ya\u015flar akmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ben hastal\u0131ktan korkarak b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm Bar\u0131n. \u00d6lmekten korktum. Ama en \u00e7ok, sevdi\u011fim insanlar\u0131n bana ac\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ger\u00e7e\u011fi saklamas\u0131ndan korktum.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n ona yakla\u015fmak istedi.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131z\u0131m geri \u00e7ekildi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bana biraz zaman ver.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O gece \u0130dil bizimle geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Eski odas\u0131nda uyudu.<\/p>\n<p>Sabah kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlarken mutfa\u011fa girdi. G\u00f6zleri \u015fi\u015fmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anne, ben bebe\u011fimi kaybedecek miyim?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ona sar\u0131ld\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bilmiyoruz k\u0131z\u0131m. Ama bu kez hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenmeden karar vermeyece\u011fiz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ertesi hafta ba\u015fka bir hastanede, tedaviyi uygulayan ekipten ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z uzmanlara ba\u015fvurduk.<\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131lan ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 incelemeler g\u00fcnler s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u0131rada Bar\u0131n, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 hastanenin y\u00f6netimine y\u0131llar \u00f6nce gizledi\u011fi belge eksikliklerini yaz\u0131l\u0131 olarak bildirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Hakk\u0131nda soru\u015fturma ba\u015flat\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6revinden ge\u00e7ici olarak uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil bunu \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finde \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Demek sonunda do\u011fruyu s\u00f6ylemi\u015f.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ama y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k h\u00e2l\u00e2 duruyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dc\u00e7 hafta sonra doktorumuz bizi hastaneye \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Muayene odas\u0131na girerken \u0130dil&#8217;in elleri buz gibiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Doktor dosyay\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Size iki haberimiz var.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hepimiz nefesimizi tuttuk.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130lk olarak, \u00f6nceki taramada g\u00f6r\u00fclen bulgular\u0131n annenin kan\u0131ndaki farkl\u0131 h\u00fccre gruplar\u0131 nedeniyle yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131 olmu\u015f olabilece\u011fini do\u011frulad\u0131k. Bebe\u011fin do\u011frudan incelenen \u00f6rne\u011finde korktu\u011fumuz genetik hastal\u0131\u011fa rastlamad\u0131k.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yani bebe\u011fim sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 m\u0131?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u015eu ana kadar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z incelemeler olumlu. Elbette gebelik takibine devam edece\u011fiz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131z\u0131m ellerini y\u00fcz\u00fcne kapatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben de g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 tutamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ama doktorun ikinci haberi vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130dil Han\u0131m, sizin eski tedavinizle ilgili baz\u0131 bulgular da elde ettik.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Odadaki sevin\u00e7 bir anda yerini sessizli\u011fe b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Eski \u00f6rnekler incelendi\u011finde ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 h\u00fccrelerinin ger\u00e7ekten size ait baz\u0131 kan h\u00fccreleriyle birlikte bulundu\u011fu g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc. Bu, tedavi ge\u00e7mi\u015finiz a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli. Ancak tek ba\u015f\u0131na k\u00f6t\u00fc bir sonu\u00e7 anlam\u0131na gelmiyor.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yani yeniden hastalanacak m\u0131y\u0131m?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bunu g\u00f6steren bir bulgu yok. Fakat d\u00fczenli takip \u00f6nemli.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ben takiplerden korkmam doktor han\u0131m. Bilmemekten korkar\u0131m.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O c\u00fcmleyi duydu\u011fumda k\u0131z\u0131mla gurur duydum.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil birka\u00e7 hafta sonra Bar\u0131n&#8217;la g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi kabul etti.<\/p>\n<p>Ben de yan\u0131nda olmak istedim ama k\u0131z\u0131m bu konu\u015fmay\u0131 yaln\u0131z yapmak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ki saat sonra eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde sessizdi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ne oldu?&#8221; diye sordum.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bar\u0131n bana b\u00fct\u00fcn belgeleri verdi. Hastane y\u00f6netimine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirimin kopyas\u0131n\u0131 da.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Peki affettin mi?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil uzun s\u00fcre d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hen\u00fcz bilmiyorum anne. Ama bir insan\u0131 affetmekle ona yeniden g\u00fcvenmek ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Aylar ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n hakk\u0131ndaki soru\u015fturma tamamland\u0131. Tedavi s\u0131ras\u0131nda kay\u0131tlar\u0131n eksik tutulmas\u0131nda ba\u015fka sorumlular\u0131n da bulundu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Ancak Bar\u0131n&#8217;\u0131n fark etti\u011fi sorunlar\u0131 zaman\u0131nda bildirmedi\u011fi do\u011fruland\u0131 ve mesleki yapt\u0131r\u0131mlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>En az\u0131ndan art\u0131k hi\u00e7bir \u015fey saklanm\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil, hamileli\u011finin son aylar\u0131nda kendi evine d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n&#8217;la ili\u015fkilerini yeniden kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131z\u0131m ona bir \u015fart koymu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bir daha beni korumak i\u00e7in bile olsa benden ger\u00e7e\u011fi saklamayacaks\u0131n.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n kabul etti.<\/p>\n<p>Do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc geldi\u011finde hepimiz hastanedeydik.<\/p>\n<p>Uzun ve yorucu saatlerin ard\u0131ndan minicik bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyaya geldi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil bebe\u011fini kuca\u011f\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131rarak a\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anne, bak! Ger\u00e7ekten burada. Benim k\u0131z\u0131m&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bebe\u011fin ad\u0131n\u0131 Eyl\u00fcl koydular.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n&#8217;\u0131n y\u0131llar \u00f6nce kaybetti\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z karde\u015finin ad\u0131yd\u0131 bu.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak \u0130dil o ismi yaln\u0131zca ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 nedeniyle se\u00e7memi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bazen hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir insan hayat\u0131m\u0131za dokunur,&#8221; dedi. &#8220;Bizim bile bilmedi\u011fimiz bir iyili\u011fi, y\u0131llar sonra gelece\u011fimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirir.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n bebe\u011finin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6pt\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ke\u015fke karde\u015fim bug\u00fcnleri g\u00f6rebilseydi.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil kocas\u0131n\u0131n elini tuttu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Belki g\u00f6remiyor ama onun hat\u0131ras\u0131 art\u0131k bu evde ya\u015fayacak.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O an, uzun zamand\u0131r ilk kez ger\u00e7ek bir huzur hissettim.<\/p>\n<p>Bir y\u0131l sonra Eyl\u00fcl&#8217;\u00fcn ilk do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc kutlad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bah\u00e7eye k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir masa kurduk.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil m\u00fczik a\u00e7\u0131p k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 kuca\u011f\u0131na ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra Bar\u0131n&#8217;a elini uzatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Benimle dans eder misin?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n g\u00f6zlerine inanamad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ger\u00e7ekten mi?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130dil g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyiz. Ama bundan sonra nas\u0131l ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za karar verebiliriz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kisi dans etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6zlerim doldu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar hastane yata\u011f\u0131ndan kalkamayan k\u0131z\u0131m, \u015fimdi kendi \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla birlikte g\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn bir \u015feyi anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren b\u00fct\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekler g\u00fczel olmayabilir. Bazen sevdi\u011fimiz insanlar\u0131n hatalar\u0131, y\u0131llarca inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z mutlulu\u011fu bile sarsar.<\/p>\n<p>Ama ger\u00e7eklerden ka\u00e7mak, onlar\u0131 yok etmez.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131n&#8217;\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 silinmemi\u015fti. \u0130dil de ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir g\u00fcnde unutmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Onlar g\u00fcveni yeniden kurman\u0131n, her g\u00fcn d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmay\u0131 se\u00e7mekten ge\u00e7ti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015flerdi.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fczik bitti\u011finde \u0130dil yan\u0131ma geldi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anne, \u00e7ocukken sana ne derdim, hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musun?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130yile\u015firsem hi\u00e7 oturmadan dans edece\u011fim, derdin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ben o zaman yaln\u0131zca dans etmek istiyordum. \u015eimdi ise k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n, hayat\u0131 boyunca korkmadan ya\u015fayabilmesini istiyorum.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Elini tuttum.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Umar\u0131m hi\u00e7 korkmaz k\u0131z\u0131m. 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