{"id":1664,"date":"2026-10-15T20:11:27","date_gmt":"2026-10-15T20:11:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2.jpg"},"modified":"2026-10-15T20:11:28","modified_gmt":"2026-10-15T20:11:28","slug":"gfdsw-4","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/kardesim-kocami-sinadigini-soyledi-evimizde-cizdigimiz-sinir-her-seyi-degistirdi\/gfdsw-4\/","title":{"rendered":"gfdsw"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-1664","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2-300x200.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBen senden karde\u015fimle kavga etmeni istemedim,\u201d dedim. \u201cYaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmek istedim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHakl\u0131s\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yirmi dakika sonra Pervin kot pantolon ve kazakla a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 indi. Telefonunu avucunda tutuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu evde istenmedi\u011fimi anlad\u0131m,\u201d dedi. \u201c\u00c7antalar\u0131m\u0131 toplar\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu evde yard\u0131m g\u00f6rd\u00fcn,\u201d dedim. \u201c\u0130stenmeyen \u015fey sen de\u011fildin. Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nd\u0131. Ama uyar\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 bilerek g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011fin i\u00e7in art\u0131k burada kalamazs\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bir an dudaklar\u0131 titredi. Sonra g\u00f6zlerinde tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m o inat\u00e7\u0131 par\u0131lt\u0131 belirdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDemek bir erkek y\u00fcz\u00fcnden karde\u015fini sileceksin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHay\u0131r, Pervin. Benim s\u00f6yledi\u011fimi dinlemedi\u011fin i\u00e7in senden uzakla\u015faca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ki bavulunu haz\u0131rlamas\u0131 bir saat s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Ona bir pansiyon bulabilece\u011fimizi, isterse ilk haftan\u0131n \u00fccretini \u00f6deyece\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim. Yard\u0131m\u0131 kabul etmedi.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131karken arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu kadar m\u00fckemmel evlili\u011finizin ne kadar s\u00fcrece\u011fini g\u00f6rece\u011fiz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>O c\u00fcmle, kap\u0131 kapand\u0131ktan sonra da evin i\u00e7inde as\u0131l\u0131 kald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Okan kap\u0131n\u0131n kilidini \u00e7evirdikten sonra bana bakt\u0131. \u0130kimiz de yorgunduk. Mutfa\u011fa ge\u00e7ti\u011fimizde Pervin\u2019in sabah kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 kahve fincan\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 tezg\u00e2htayd\u0131. Onu lavaboya koyarken ellerimin titredi\u011fini fark ettim. G\u00fcnlerdir kendime \u201cBelki abart\u0131yorum,\u201d diyerek susmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Oysa insan kendi evinde huzursuzsa buna bir a\u00e7\u0131klama bulmak zorunda de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBundan sonra birimiz rahats\u0131z oldu\u011funda di\u011ferimiz onu dinleyecek,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>Okan elini uzatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cVe kimseyi korumak ad\u0131na birbirimizden ger\u00e7e\u011fi saklamayaca\u011f\u0131z,\u201d diye ekledi.<\/p>\n<p>Elini tuttum. Bu, olanlar\u0131 unuttu\u011fum anlam\u0131na gelmiyordu. Sadece ayn\u0131 tarafta oldu\u011fumuzu yeniden hissetmek istiyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u015fama do\u011fru annem arad\u0131. Sesi a\u011flamakl\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHande, karde\u015fini kocan y\u00fcz\u00fcnden soka\u011fa m\u0131 att\u0131n?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnne, ne anlatt\u0131 sana?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBana Okan\u2019\u0131n kendisine uygunsuz s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yledi\u011fini, senin de ona inanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bacaklar\u0131m\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcld\u00fc. Pervin\u2019in bize duydu\u011fu \u00f6fkenin bu noktaya varaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunu s\u00f6yledi\u011fine emin misin?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBana bir ekran g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc yollad\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Annem g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc iletti. Okan\u2019\u0131n mesaj\u0131ndan yaln\u0131zca \u201cHande\u2019nin arkas\u0131ndan konu\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d k\u0131sm\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. \u00d6ncesi kesilmi\u015fti. Alt\u0131na da Pervin, \u201cBeni susturmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131,\u201d yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Okan yan\u0131mdayd\u0131. Telefonunu a\u00e7\u0131p b\u00fct\u00fcn konu\u015fmay\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi. Ard\u0131ndan sakinlikle \u015f\u00f6yle dedi:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130stersen annenle sen konu\u015f. Ne g\u00f6sterece\u011fine de sen karar ver. Ama bir yalan y\u00fcz\u00fcnden seni yeniden yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Annemle g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Mesajlar\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 okudum. Sonra g\u00fcnlerdir karde\u015fime yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m uyar\u0131lar\u0131, Pervin\u2019in bunlara nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verdi\u011fini anlatt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Annem uzun s\u00fcre konu\u015fmad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen ona inanmak istedim,\u201d dedi sonunda. \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u011fl\u0131yordu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen de ona inanmak istedim, anne. Kap\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7mam\u0131n nedeni buydu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Telefonu kapatt\u0131ktan sonra annemin g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi ikinci mesaj\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Pervin, aile grubuna da \u00fcst\u00fc kapal\u0131 s\u00f6zler yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Hi\u00e7bir isim vermeden \u201cG\u00fcvendi\u011fim insanlar beni hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratt\u0131,\u201d diyordu. Kuzenlerimizden ikisi ona ge\u00e7mi\u015f olsun yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Telefonu elimde tutarken herkese tek tek a\u00e7\u0131klama yapma d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcyle m\u00fccadele ettim. Sonra kendime, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir oyunda herkesin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendimi savunmak zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rlatt\u0131m. Gerekti\u011finde ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6yleyecektim, ama \u00f6fkemi aile toplant\u0131s\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeyecektim.<\/p>\n<p>Tam o s\u0131rada Pervin\u2019den bir mesaj geldi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnnemin yan\u0131nda beni yalanc\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131n. Bunun hesab\u0131n\u0131 vereceksin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7ime bir korku d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Okan\u2019a g\u00f6sterdim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCevap vermeyelim,\u201d dedi. \u201cAma mesajlar\u0131 saklayal\u0131m. Bir daha su\u00e7lama yaparsa durumu sakin ve a\u00e7\u0131k bi\u00e7imde anlat\u0131r\u0131z.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ertesi sabah i\u015f yerime giderken telefonum \u00e7ald\u0131. Arayan, Pervin\u2019in eski sevgilisi Bar\u0131\u015f\u2019t\u0131. Alt\u0131 y\u0131ld\u0131r onu tan\u0131yordum ama benimle neredeyse hi\u00e7 ba\u015f ba\u015fa konu\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHande abla,\u201d dedi \u00e7ekinerek, \u201cPervin\u2019in sende kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. Sana bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemem gerekiyor.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kalbim h\u0131zland\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe oldu?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOnu evden kovmad\u0131m. Ayr\u0131lmak istedi\u011fini kendisi s\u00f6yledi. E\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 da birlikte toplad\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Arabay\u0131 g\u00fcvenli bir yere \u00e7ektim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeki neden bana kovuldu\u011funu anlatt\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBilmiyorum. Ama ayr\u0131lmadan \u00f6nce haftalard\u0131r tek bir \u015feyden s\u00f6z ediyordu. Senin hayat\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Telefonun di\u011fer ucunda k\u0131sa bir sessizlik oldu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir g\u00fcn bana, \u2018Hande\u2019nin kocas\u0131 da f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 bulsa ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yapar,\u2019 dedi. Ben de neden ablan\u0131n evlili\u011fiyle u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sordum. \u00c7ok k\u0131zd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBar\u0131\u015f, aran\u0131zda ba\u015fka bir \u015fey mi oldu?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Derin bir nefes ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmedim. Fakat Pervin benim telefonumu s\u00fcrekli kontrol etmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bir g\u00fcn i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n mesaj\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce beni aldatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Sonra da ili\u015fkimizi bitirdi. Yard\u0131m almas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nerdi\u011fimde beni hayat\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme bitti\u011finde i\u00e7imdeki \u00f6fkenin yerini a\u011f\u0131r bir h\u00fcz\u00fcn ald\u0131. Karde\u015fim yaln\u0131zca bizi k\u0131rmam\u0131\u015f, kendi hayat\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 korkuyu herkese bula\u015ft\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Yine de bunu bilmek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 mazur g\u00f6stermiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dc\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra kap\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Pervin kar\u015f\u0131mdayd\u0131. G\u00f6zlerinin alt\u0131nda koyu halkalar vard\u0131. Bu kez elinde bavul de\u011fil, buru\u015fturulmu\u015f bir zarf tutuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBe\u015f dakika konu\u015fabilir miyiz?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Onu salona ald\u0131m. Okan mutfaktayd\u0131; kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k b\u0131rakt\u0131 ama konu\u015fmam\u0131za kar\u0131\u015fmad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Pervin zarf\u0131 masaya koydu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k merkezinden randevu ald\u0131m,\u201d dedi. \u201cBug\u00fcn ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye gittim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u015ea\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. Ne s\u00f6yleyece\u011fimi beklemeden devam etti.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBar\u0131\u015f\u2019la ayr\u0131l\u0131nca kendimi terk edilmi\u015f hissettim. Senin evine gelince her \u015feyiniz g\u00f6z\u00fcme batt\u0131. Beraber kahve i\u00e7meniz, birbirinize g\u00fclmeniz&#8230; Sanki benim hayat\u0131m y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015fken sizinkinin g\u00fczel olmas\u0131 haks\u0131zl\u0131kt\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zleri doldu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir kez olsun Okan\u2019\u0131n bana bakmas\u0131n\u0131 istedim. Sonra sana \u2018G\u00f6rd\u00fcn m\u00fc, hi\u00e7bir erkek farkl\u0131 de\u011fil,\u2019 diyecektim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu itiraf can\u0131m\u0131 mesajlardan bile fazla ac\u0131tt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen senin rakibin de\u011filim, Pervin,\u201d dedim. \u201cHi\u00e7 olmad\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBiliyorum. Ama k\u0131skand\u0131m. Bana yard\u0131m etti\u011fin i\u00e7in de sana k\u0131zd\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yard\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olmak kendimi daha k\u00f6t\u00fc hissettirdi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAma bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri bana yalan s\u00f6ylemeni, Okan\u2019a yakla\u015fman\u0131 ve sonra onu su\u00e7laman\u0131 hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u0131karmaz. Anneme de ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlatt\u0131m. Okan\u2019dan \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemek istiyorum. Senden de.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Okan i\u00e7eri geldi. Pervin g\u00f6zlerini yerden kald\u0131rmadan konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSana att\u0131\u011f\u0131m mesaj yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Sonra anneme s\u00f6ylediklerim daha da yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Okan k\u0131sa bir sessizlikten sonra cevap verdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00d6zr\u00fcn\u00fc duydum. Ama g\u00fcven hemen geri gelmez. Hande\u2019nin kararlar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyacaks\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pervin bana d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTekrar burada kalabilir miyim?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o an, eskiden olsa teredd\u00fct etmeden \u2018Evet\u2019 diyece\u011fim soruyla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yayd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHay\u0131r,\u201d dedim. \u201cSana i\u015f ararken yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirim. Ama evimizde yeniden kalmayacaks\u0131n. G\u00fcveni yeniden kurmam\u0131z zaman alacak.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A\u011flad\u0131. Ben de a\u011flad\u0131m. Yine de karar\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmedim.<\/p>\n<p>Alt\u0131 ay sonra Pervin bir muhasebe b\u00fcrosunda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir eve ta\u015f\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerine devam ediyordu. Bazen bulu\u015fuyor, bazen haftalarca konu\u015fmuyorduk. Art\u0131k hi\u00e7birimiz ili\u015fkimizin eskisi gibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 aceleye getirmiyorduk.<\/p>\n<p>Bir pazar sabah\u0131 Okan\u2019la mutfakta kahve i\u00e7erken telefonuma Pervin\u2019den bir mesaj d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbla, bana kap\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcn asl\u0131nda beni kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131n. Ben bunu g\u00f6rmek yerine senin huzurunu bozmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bir g\u00fcn beni affedersen sevinirim. Ama affetmesen de sana sayg\u0131 duyaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mesaj\u0131 Okan\u2019a g\u00f6sterdim. Elimi tuttu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe cevap vereceksin?\u201d diye sordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir s\u00fcre d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Sonra yazd\u0131m:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSeni seviyorum, Pervin. \u0130yile\u015fmek i\u00e7in g\u00f6sterdi\u011fin \u00e7abay\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Ama sevgi, her davran\u0131\u015fa yeniden kap\u0131 a\u00e7mak demek de\u011fil. G\u00fcvenimizi acele etmeden, do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flarla kurabiliriz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Telefonu b\u0131rakt\u0131m ve pencereden i\u00e7eri dolan sabah \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131na bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn \u015funu anlad\u0131m: Bir evlili\u011fin g\u00fcc\u00fc, ba\u015fka birinin ba\u015ftan \u00e7\u0131karma oyununu kazanmakla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclmez. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n birbirlerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 korumas\u0131yla, hatalar\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmesiyle ve en zor anda bile ger\u00e7e\u011fin yan\u0131nda durmas\u0131yla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Pervin\u2019in yapmak istedi\u011fi testte Okan\u2019\u0131 kaybetmemi\u015ftim. Ama \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemli bir \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftim: Kendi huzurumu korumak i\u00e7in kimseye, karde\u015fim bile olsa, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z bir yer vermek zorunda de\u011fildim.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":600,"height":400,"file":"2026\/10\/gfdsw-2.jpg","filesize":108353,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"gfdsw-2-300x200.jpg","width":300,"height":200,"filesize":16691,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2-300x200.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"gfdsw-2-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":6725,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"gfdsw-2.jpg","width":600,"height":400,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":1661,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfdsw-2.jpg","filename":"gfdsw-2.jpg","filesize":108353,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1664","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1664"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":1661,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1661"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}