{"id":2313,"date":"2026-10-31T20:20:53","date_gmt":"2026-10-31T20:20:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6.jpg"},"modified":"2026-10-31T20:21:05","modified_gmt":"2026-10-31T20:21:05","slug":"gfd-7","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/babamin-is-arkadasiyla-evlendim\/gfd-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Babam\u0131n i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131yla evlendim"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-2313","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6-300x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6.jpg 540w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Babam\u0131n i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131yla evlenece\u011fimi s\u00f6yledi\u011fim g\u00fcn, insanlar\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 unutam\u0131yorum. Babam\u0131n y\u0131llard\u0131r birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 Cemil Bey benden tam yirmi ya\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fc. Ben otuz ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m, o ise elli. Aram\u0131zdaki ya\u015f fark\u0131 herkesin dilindeydi ama kimse benim i\u00e7imde kopan f\u0131rt\u0131nay\u0131 bilmiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Cemil\u2019i ilk ba\u015fta sadece babam\u0131n ciddi, mesafeli ve g\u00fcvenilir i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Bana hi\u00e7bir zaman s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fan bir bak\u0131\u015f bile atmam\u0131\u015f, aksine ne zaman ayn\u0131 ortamda bulunsak benimle sanki babam\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131ym\u0131\u015f\u0131m gibi sayg\u0131l\u0131 konu\u015fmu\u015ftu. Belki de beni ona \u00e7eken ilk \u015fey buydu.<\/p>\n<p>Onun yan\u0131nda kendimi g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, korunmu\u015f ve garip bir \u015fekilde huzurlu hissediyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Babam bu evlili\u011fe ilk ba\u015fta kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cK\u0131z\u0131m, aran\u0131zda yirmi ya\u015f var,\u201d dedi\u011finde ben sadece g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim. \u201cBen \u00e7ocuk de\u011filim baba,\u201d diye cevap verdim. Asl\u0131nda karar\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7oktan vermi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n<p>Cemil bana hi\u00e7bir zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck vaatlerde bulunmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bana pahal\u0131 hediyeler alarak ya da g\u00fczel s\u00f6zlerle kendisini sevdirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Onun sevgisi sessizdi.<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":540,"height":540,"file":"2026\/10\/gfd-6.jpg","filesize":48395,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"gfd-6-300x300.jpg","width":300,"height":300,"filesize":16593,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6-300x300.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"gfd-6-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":5807,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"gfd-6.jpg","width":540,"height":540,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":2312,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/gfd-6.jpg","filename":"gfd-6.jpg","filesize":48395,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2313","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2313"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":2312,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2312"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}