{"id":527,"date":"2026-09-17T21:51:13","date_gmt":"2026-09-17T21:51:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565.jpg"},"modified":"2026-09-17T21:51:28","modified_gmt":"2026-09-17T21:51:28","slug":"656565","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/55-yasinda-kocamdan-ayrildim-genc-bir-adam-bana-bunu-teklif-etti\/attachment\/656565\/","title":{"rendered":"55 ya\u015f\u0131nda kocamdan ayr\u0131ld\u0131m gen\u00e7 bir adam bana bunu teklif etti"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-527","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"157\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-300x157.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-300x157.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Elli be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131mda, yirmi dokuz y\u0131ll\u0131k evlili\u011fimi bitirdi\u011fim g\u00fcn herkes benim i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ben ise ilk kez nefes ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hissediyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Kocam Cengiz\u2019le y\u0131llar boyunca ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015fayan iki yabanc\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck. Kavga etmiyorduk, ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131yorduk, birbirimizi aldatmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Belki de en k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc buydu. Aram\u0131zda \u00f6fke bile kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sabah kahvalt\u0131da kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 otururken ona bakt\u0131m ve i\u00e7imde hi\u00e7bir \u015fey k\u0131p\u0131rdamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ettim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBen ayr\u0131lmak istiyorum,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>Cengiz uzun s\u00fcre y\u00fcz\u00fcme bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra yaln\u0131zca ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dc\u00e7 ay sonra bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131z\u0131m ba\u015fka \u015fehirde ya\u015f\u0131yordu. O\u011flum evliydi. Ben ise y\u0131llard\u0131r ilk kez tek ba\u015f\u0131ma, denize yak\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir apartman dairesine ta\u015f\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk haftalar garip ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u015famlar\u0131 televizyonun sesini \u00f6zellikle y\u00fcksek a\u00e7\u0131yordum. Banyodan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda evin sessizli\u011fi y\u00fcz\u00fcme \u00e7arp\u0131yordu. Sabah kahvesini iki ki\u015filik haz\u0131rlamaya al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ellerim bazen fark\u0131nda olmadan ikinci fincan\u0131 da \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ama sonra yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ba\u015fka bir y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc ke\u015ffettim.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130stedi\u011fim saatte uyuyordum.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130stedi\u011fim yeme\u011fi yap\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Kimse neden k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 elbise giydi\u011fimi sormuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte Kerem\u2019le de o k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 elbiseyi giydi\u011fim g\u00fcn tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Apartman\u0131n giri\u015findeki a\u011f\u0131r kap\u0131yla u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yordum. Elimde market po\u015fetleri vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Arkamdan bir erkek sesi geldi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130sterseniz yard\u0131m edeyim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde otuzlar\u0131n\u0131n ortalar\u0131nda oldu\u011funu tahmin etti\u011fim uzun boylu, koyu sa\u00e7l\u0131 bir adam g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGerek yok,\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunu s\u00f6yleyen herkesin iki elinde de po\u015fet oluyor nedense.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130stemeden g\u00fcld\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Po\u015fetlerden ikisini ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 apartmanda, iki kat \u00fcst\u00fcmde oturdu\u011funu o g\u00fcn \u00f6\u011frendim.<\/p>\n<p>Kerem otuz alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Mimard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bek\u00e2rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ve rahats\u0131z edici derecede rahat bir adamd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra asans\u00f6rde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeni hayata al\u0131\u015fabildiniz mi?\u201d diye sordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ea\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeni hayat oldu\u011funu nereden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131n?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Elindeki kahveyi kald\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeni ta\u015f\u0131nan insanlar\u0131n iki t\u00fcr\u00fc vard\u0131r. Ya \u00e7ok heyecanl\u0131d\u0131rlar ya da s\u00fcrekli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Siz ikincisisiniz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu defa g\u00fclmedim.<\/p>\n<p>Ama s\u00f6zleri akl\u0131mda kald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonraki haftalarda s\u0131k s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen asans\u00f6rde.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen markette.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen apartman\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde.<\/p>\n<p>Kerem hi\u00e7bir zaman haddini a\u015fm\u0131yordu ama bana kad\u0131n oldu\u011fumu hat\u0131rlatan bir bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bu, y\u0131llard\u0131r unutmu\u015f oldu\u011fum bir histi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ak\u015fam kap\u0131m \u00e7ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda Kerem elinde \u015farap de\u011fil, bir tabak makarna tutuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFazla yapt\u0131m,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu \u00e7ok eski bir bahane.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo\u011fru. Asl\u0131nda \u00f6zellikle yapt\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ka\u015f\u0131m\u0131 kald\u0131rd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNeden?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc seni yeme\u011fe davet edersem gelmeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk kez bana \u201csiz\u201d dememi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fi\u011finde birka\u00e7 saniye birbirimize bakt\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Kalbimin h\u0131zland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edince kendime k\u0131zd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAram\u0131zda neredeyse yirmi ya\u015f var,\u201d dedim<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":768,"height":402,"file":"2026\/09\/656565.jpg","filesize":19663,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"656565-300x157.jpg","width":300,"height":157,"filesize":4918,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-300x157.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"656565-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":3957,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"656565.jpg","width":768,"height":402,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":526,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565.jpg","filename":"656565.jpg","filesize":19663,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/527","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=527"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":526,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}