{"id":577,"date":"2026-09-18T22:05:23","date_gmt":"2026-09-18T22:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1.jpg"},"modified":"2026-09-18T22:05:36","modified_gmt":"2026-09-18T22:05:36","slug":"656565-2","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/karim-yillarca-bana-bes-erkek-cocuk-verdigim-icin-soylendi-ama-sonunda-yillardir-hayalini-kurdugu-kizi-dunyaya-getirip-onu-ilk-kez-kucagina-aldiginda-verdigi-tepki-beni-soke-etti\/656565-2\/","title":{"rendered":"KARIM YILLARCA BANA BE\u015e ERKEK \u00c7OCUK VERD\u0130\u011e\u0130M \u0130\u00c7\u0130N S\u00d6YLEND\u0130 \u2014 AMA SONUNDA YILLARDIR HAYAL\u0130N\u0130 KURDU\u011eU KIZI D\u00dcNYAYA GET\u0130R\u0130P ONU \u0130LK KEZ KUCA\u011eINA ALDI\u011eINDA VERD\u0130\u011e\u0130 TEPK\u0130 BEN\u0130 \u015eOKE ETT\u0130."},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-577","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"157\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1-300x157.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1-300x157.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDudaklar\u0131 titrerken \u00f6yle bir c\u00fcmle s\u00f6yledi ki \u00f6nce yanl\u0131\u015f duydu\u011fumu sand\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu k\u0131zda annemin izi var.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Asude\u2019nin ne demek istedi\u011fini anlayamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Hem\u015fire de anlamam\u0131\u015f olacak ki bebe\u011fi kontrol etmek i\u00e7in biraz yakla\u015ft\u0131. Lalin\u2019in battaniyesi omzundan hafif\u00e7e s\u0131yr\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Sol k\u00f6pr\u00fcc\u00fck kemi\u011finin hemen alt\u0131nda, teninden biraz daha koyu, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir y\u0131ld\u0131z bi\u00e7imli do\u011fum lekesi vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Asude o lekeye bak\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Sanki odada ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u015fey kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAsude?\u201d dedim. \u201cNe oluyor?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zlerini benden ay\u0131rmadan f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnnemde de ayn\u0131s\u0131 vard\u0131. Ablamda da.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk kez o anda, kar\u0131m\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki \u015feyin hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Korkuydu.<\/p>\n<p>Hem\u015fire sakin bir sesle bunun s\u0131radan bir do\u011fum lekesi olabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Ama Asude ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 h\u0131zla iki yana sallad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHay\u0131r. Siz bilmiyorsunuz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sonra bebe\u011fi sanki elinden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrecekmi\u015f gibi bana uzatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDoktoru \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>O kadar paniklemi\u015fti ki hem\u015fire hemen d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Lalin\u2019i kuca\u011f\u0131ma ald\u0131m. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck y\u00fcz\u00fc huzurluydu. G\u00f6zleri kapal\u0131yd\u0131. Nefesi d\u00fczenliydi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAsude, bana ne anlatm\u0131yorsun?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llard\u0131r birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kad\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini kapatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bana evlili\u011fimiz boyunca hi\u00e7 duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir hik\u00e2ye anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Asude\u2019nin kendisinden alt\u0131 ya\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ablas\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ad\u0131 Bige\u2019ymi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Bige on yedi ya\u015f\u0131ndayken bir sabah okul yolunda bay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. \u00d6nce kans\u0131zl\u0131k sanm\u0131\u015flar. Sonra kalbinde do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen ciddi bir ritim bozuklu\u011fu oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Aylar s\u00fcren tedaviden sonra gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnnemde de ayn\u0131 sorun vard\u0131,\u201d dedi Asude. \u201cAma onda daha hafifti.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBunu neden bana hi\u00e7 s\u00f6ylemedin?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cevap vermedi.<\/p>\n<p>Sadece a\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra as\u0131l saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyi anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bige\u2019nin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra ailelerine genetik inceleme \u00f6nerilmi\u015f. Doktorlar, kad\u0131nlarda daha a\u011f\u0131r seyredebildi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen kal\u0131tsal bir kalp rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u015f\u00fcphelenmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p>Asude hen\u00fcz on bir ya\u015f\u0131ndaym\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Annesi y\u0131llarca ona ayn\u0131 \u015feyi s\u00f6ylemi\u015f:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir g\u00fcn k\u0131z\u0131n olursa mutlaka doktorlara ailemizi anlat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ben donup kald\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAlt\u0131 hamilelik boyunca bunu doktorlara s\u00f6ylemedin mi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130lk be\u015finde erkek olduklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenince sustum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7imde bir \u00f6fke y\u00fckseldi.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llarca bana \u201cBe\u015f erkek senin su\u00e7un\u201d diye tak\u0131lan kad\u0131n, asl\u0131nda k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fundan korktu\u011funu benden saklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeki o zaman neden s\u00fcrekli k\u0131z istedin?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Asude bana bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc korktu\u011fum \u015feyin hayat\u0131m\u0131 y\u00f6netmesini istemedim.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu cevaba k\u0131zmak istedim.<\/p>\n<p>Ama y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda yapamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir yan\u0131m k\u0131z\u0131m olsun istiyordu,\u201d dedi. \u201cBir yan\u0131m da k\u0131z\u0131m olursa onu kaybedece\u011fime inan\u0131yordu. Her erkek \u00e7ocukta hem \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyor hem rahatl\u0131yordum. Sana k\u0131z\u0131yormu\u015f gibi yapt\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylersem senin de benim kadar korkaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Tam o s\u0131rada \u00e7ocuk doktoru i\u00e7eri girdi<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":768,"height":402,"file":"2026\/09\/656565-1.jpg","filesize":19663,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"656565-1-300x157.jpg","width":300,"height":157,"filesize":4918,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1-300x157.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"656565-1-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":3957,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"656565-1.jpg","width":768,"height":402,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":576,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/656565-1.jpg","filename":"656565-1.jpg","filesize":19663,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/577","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=577"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":576,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}