{"id":886,"date":"2026-09-24T22:20:15","date_gmt":"2026-09-24T22:20:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1.jpg"},"modified":"2026-09-24T22:20:21","modified_gmt":"2026-09-24T22:20:21","slug":"hgfd-2","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/ikiz-kizlarimdan-birini-kaybettikten-sonra-kocam-beni-terk-etti\/hgfd-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130K\u0130Z KIZLARIMDAN B\u0130R\u0130N\u0130 KAYBETT\u0130KTEN SONRA KOCAM BEN\u0130 TERK ETT\u0130"},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"class_list":["post-886","attachment","type-attachment","status-inherit","hentry"],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1.jpg'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1-300x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1.jpg 554w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Kutunun en alt\u0131nda, Ekin\u2019in \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u00f6ylenen tarihten tam \u00fc\u00e7 ay sonra \u00e7ekilmi\u015f bir foto\u011fraf vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Foto\u011fraftaki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z kameraya g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ve y\u00fcz\u00fc, kaybetti\u011fimi sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcyd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Foto\u011fraf\u0131 elimde \u00f6yle s\u0131k\u0131 tutuyordum ki parmaklar\u0131m\u0131n titredi\u011fini bile fark etmiyordum. Ekin\u2019in sa\u00e7lar\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na kadar uzam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00dczerinde daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmedi\u011fim bir h\u0131rka vard\u0131. Arkas\u0131nda ise beyaz duvarl\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir bah\u00e7eye a\u00e7\u0131lan pencere g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Foto\u011fraf\u0131n k\u00f6\u015fesinde bir tarih vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Yanl\u0131\u015f g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f olmay\u0131 diledim.<\/p>\n<p>Tekrar bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Hay\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ekin\u2019in cenazesinden tam doksan iki g\u00fcn sonrayd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Babam\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne d\u00f6nd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu ne?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sesim bana ait de\u011filmi\u015f gibi \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Babam dudaklar\u0131n\u0131 birbirine bast\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00d6nce mektubu oku.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Masadaki zarf\u0131 ald\u0131m. \u00dczerinde Cemal\u2019in el yaz\u0131s\u0131yla yaln\u0131zca benim ad\u0131m vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Zarf\u0131 y\u0131rtarken i\u00e7imde on \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131ld\u0131r susturdu\u011fum her \u015fey yeniden aya\u011fa kalk\u0131yordu. Cemal\u2019e duydu\u011fum \u00f6fke, Ekin\u2019in mezar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim geceler, Nisan\u2019\u0131n \u00e7ocukken \u201cBabam neden gelmiyor?\u201d diye sordu\u011fu anlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Mektubu a\u00e7t\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk c\u00fcmleyi okuyunca nefesim kesildi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cE\u011fer bunu okuyorsan Nisan art\u0131k on sekiz ya\u015f\u0131nda ve sana verdi\u011fim s\u00f6z sona ermi\u015f demektir.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Devam\u0131nda yaz\u0131lanlar hayat\u0131m boyunca \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fim b\u00fct\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekleri parampar\u00e7a etti.<\/p>\n<p>Ekin o g\u00fcn hastanede \u00f6lmemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek bundan \u00e7ok daha karma\u015f\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ekin ve Nisan do\u011fdu\u011funda doktorlar\u0131n bize s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fi genetik bir durumdan s\u00f6z ediliyordu. \u0130kizlerin hastane kay\u0131tlar\u0131nda do\u011fumdan hemen sonra yap\u0131lan baz\u0131 testler kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Be\u015f y\u0131l sonra Ekin hastaland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yap\u0131lan ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 incelemede, k\u0131zlar\u0131n biyolojik olarak Cemal\u2019in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ama as\u0131l korkun\u00e7 olan bu de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n<p>Cemal mektubunda, hastanedeki eski kay\u0131tlar\u0131n incelenmesiyle do\u011fum s\u0131ras\u0131nda iki bebe\u011fin ba\u015fka bir ailenin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olabilece\u011finin anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131p babama bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu sa\u00e7mal\u0131k.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Babam a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKe\u015fke \u00f6yle olsayd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mektuba geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Ekin\u2019in ani hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda doktorlar onun acil ve \u00f6zel bir tedaviye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015flerdi. Fakat tedaviye ba\u015flanmadan \u00f6nce biyolojik ailesinin t\u0131bbi ge\u00e7mi\u015fine ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekiyordu. Hastanenin ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131 sonunda ba\u015fka \u015fehirde ya\u015fayan bir aileye ula\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Cemal o aileyle gizlice g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ekin\u2019in biyolojik annesi y\u0131llar \u00f6nce ayn\u0131 genetik hastal\u0131ktan bir \u00e7ocu\u011funu kaybetmi\u015fti. Bu y\u00fczden tedavi i\u00e7in gerekli bilgileri verebilmi\u015fti gorsele do&#8217;kunun diger b\u00f6l\u00fcm sonraki sayfda&#8230;<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":554,"height":554,"file":"2026\/09\/hgfd-1.jpg","filesize":8525,"sizes":{"medium":{"file":"hgfd-1-300x300.jpg","width":300,"height":300,"filesize":4342,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1-300x300.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"hgfd-1-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"filesize":1813,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1-150x150.jpg"},"full":{"file":"hgfd-1.jpg","width":554,"height":554,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[],"alt":""}},"post":885,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hgfd-1.jpg","filename":"hgfd-1.jpg","filesize":8525,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/886","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=886"}],"wp:attached-to":[{"embeddable":true,"post_type":"post","id":885,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}