{"id":2206,"date":"2026-10-28T21:04:02","date_gmt":"2026-10-28T21:04:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/?p=2206"},"modified":"2026-10-28T21:04:02","modified_gmt":"2026-10-28T21:04:02","slug":"yirmi-yil-boyunca-seksen-dokuz-yasindaki-kayinpederim-benim-soframda-yemek-yedi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/yirmi-yil-boyunca-seksen-dokuz-yasindaki-kayinpederim-benim-soframda-yemek-yedi\/","title":{"rendered":"Yirmi y\u0131l boyunca seksen dokuz ya\u015f\u0131ndaki kay\u0131npederim benim soframda yemek yedi."},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style>\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-2206 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/yirmi-yil-boyunca-seksen-dokuz-yasindaki-kayinpederim-benim-soframda-yemek-yedi\/hgtg-9\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/hgtg-6-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-2207\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-2207'>\n\t\t\t\tDerya Han\u0131m\u2019\u0131n parma\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sararm\u0131\u015f ilk sayfas\u0131ndaki kur\u015fun kalemle yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f sat\u0131rlara dokundu. Salondaki herkes nefesini tutmu\u015ftu. Murat s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131yla saatine bak\u0131yor, Selin ise g\u00f6zlerini ovu\u015fturuyordu. Fakat o an odadaki hi\u00e7bir \u015fey umurumda de\u011fildi. G\u00f6zlerim Mehmet\u2019in o titrek, yorgun harflerine kilitlenmi\u015fti.\n\nYaz\u0131, yirmi y\u0131l \u00f6nce, tam da bu eve ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk haftalarda ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\n\u201c14 Ekim,\u201d diye okudu Derya Han\u0131m, sessiz ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir ses tonuyla. \u201cAhmet bug\u00fcn eve yorgun arg\u0131n geldi. Ellerine bakt\u0131m; motor ya\u011f\u0131 derisinin i\u00e7ine i\u015flemi\u015fti, \u00e7\u0131km\u0131yordu. Yemek masas\u0131nda bana bak\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki o yabanc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6fkeyi g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Hakl\u0131. \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fumun bana kap\u0131y\u0131 kapatmas\u0131ndan sonra, kendimi ba\u015fka bir evin boyunduru\u011fu alt\u0131na sokmak ne kadar zor, tahmin edebiliyorum. Ona y\u00fck oluyorum. Ama gidecek ba\u015fka yerim yok. Bari bu evde varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez k\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fay\u0131m.\u201d\n\nYutkand\u0131m. Bo\u011faz\u0131mdaki o keskin ac\u0131, y\u0131llard\u0131r ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m demirden bir k\u00fctle gibi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc.\n\nDerya Han\u0131m sayfalar\u0131 \u00e7evirdi. Y\u0131llar, aylar, g\u00fcnler birbirini koval\u0131yordu. Her sayfa, Mehmet\u2019in sessiz g\u00f6zlemlerinin, pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n ve en \u00f6nemlisi, benim dahi unuttu\u011fum baz\u0131 ger\u00e7eklerin kayd\u0131yd\u0131.\n\n\u201c3 Haziran,\u201d diye devam etti avukat. \u201cEmir\u2019in bisikletinin zinciri kopmu\u015f. Ahmet\u2019in ak\u015fam tamir etmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Gizlice arka bah\u00e7eye inip eski alet kutumla zinciri onard\u0131m. \u00c7ocuk mutlu oldu. Ama Ahmet\u2019in bunu benim yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmesini istemedim; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilirse, bana yine bor\u00e7lu hissedecek ve bu onu daha \u00e7ok \u00f6fkelendirecek.\u201d\n\nZeynep\u2019in h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131r\u0131klar\u0131 odada yank\u0131land\u0131. Elimi tuttu ama parmaklar\u0131m ta\u015ftan ibaretti; k\u0131m\u0131ldayam\u0131yordum.\n\nVe sonra, sayfalar ilerledik\u00e7e kayd\u0131n rengi de\u011fi\u015fti. Mehmet\u2019in g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sadece bir g\u00fcnl\u00fck de\u011filmi\u015f me\u011fer. O, yirmi y\u0131l boyunca evimizin g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bilan\u00e7osuydu.\n\n\u201c12 Kas\u0131m,\u201d diyordu bir ba\u015fka sayfa. \u201cAhmet yine minib\u00fcs\u00fcn masraf\u0131ndan yak\u0131nd\u0131. Kendi kendime hesaplad\u0131m; benim bu evde yedi\u011fim ekmek, kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m elektrik, t\u00fcketti\u011fim su ve ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m ila\u00e7lar\u0131n maliyeti, buraya geldi\u011fim g\u00fcnden beri her ay d\u00fczenli olarak bir hesaba yat\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131yd\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n benden kalan miras\u0131 \u00e7oktan harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. Ama benim gizli bir s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131m, y\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinden kalan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir arsam vard\u0131. Murat, Selin ve Can o arsay\u0131 benden y\u0131llar \u00f6nce istemi\u015f, vermedi\u011fim i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015fman olmu\u015flard\u0131. O arsa ge\u00e7en ay kamula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131.\u201d\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/yirmi-yil-boyunca-seksen-dokuz-yasindaki-kayinpederim-benim-soframda-yemek-yedi\/tyh\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/tyh-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-2208\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-2208'>\n\t\t\t\tSalonda bir u\u011fultu kopar gibi oldu. Murat hemen \u00f6ne do\u011fru e\u011fildi.\n\u201cArsa m\u0131? Hangi arsa? Bize babam\u0131n be\u015f kuru\u015fu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftin!\u201d diye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131 Murat.\n\nDerya Han\u0131m ona buz gibi bir bak\u0131\u015f att\u0131 ve okumaya devam etti:\n\n\u201cO arsan\u0131n bedeli, devlet taraf\u0131ndan banka hesab\u0131ma yat\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131. Ama paray\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma b\u0131rakamazd\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o para, onlar\u0131n umurunda bile olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m y\u0131llarda, bana \u00e7at\u0131 olan, taba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fen, elleri nas\u0131rl\u0131 bir adam\u0131n eme\u011fiyle \u00e7arp\u0131larak b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Ahmet her sabah i\u015fe giderken o direksiyonu s\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ben bu odada onun omzundaki y\u00fck\u00fcn bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 rakamlara d\u00f6kt\u00fcm.\u201d\n\nAvukat ye\u015fil g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn en arka sayfas\u0131na, kal\u0131n bir zarf\u0131n yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yere geldi. Zarf\u0131 dikkatle a\u00e7t\u0131 ve i\u00e7inden resmi, m\u00fch\u00fcrl\u00fc bir tapu senedi ile bir banka talimatnamesi \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131.\n\n\u201cMehmet Y\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131m,\u201d dedi Derya Han\u0131m g\u00f6zlerini bize dikerek, \u201chayat\u0131n\u0131n son yirmi y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131 bu evin gizli muhasebecisi olarak ge\u00e7irdi. Ama bir bor\u00e7lu gibi de\u011fil, bir ortak gibi.\u201d\n\nSesi \u00e7atlad\u0131, bir an durdu.\n\n\u201cVasiyetin \u00f6zeti \u015fudur: Mehmet Bey, ad\u0131na yatan t\u00fcm tazminat ve arsa bedelini, faizleriyle birlikte, bu evin kredisinin kapat\u0131lmas\u0131na ve kalan k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 Emir ve Elif\u2019in e\u011fitim fonuna aktar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 yasal olarak vasiyet etmi\u015ftir. Di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 Murat, Selin ve Can\u2019a ise sakl\u0131 paylar\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yasal olarak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u2018Onlar babalar\u0131n\u0131 kaybettiklerinde de\u011fil, miras beklediklerinde geldiler,\u2019 diye yazm\u0131\u015f.\u201d\n\nOda tamamen sessizli\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fc. Murat \u00f6fkeden k\u0131pk\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 kesilmi\u015fti.\n\u201cBu bir hile! O ya\u015fl\u0131 adam bunam\u0131\u015ft\u0131! O imza ge\u00e7ersiz!\u201d diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131.\nCan ve Selin de ba\u011fr\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Ama sesleri art\u0131k kulaklar\u0131ma ula\u015fm\u0131yordu.\n\nDerya Han\u0131m masadaki ye\u015fil g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bana do\u011fru biraz daha itti. Kitab\u0131n kapag\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 o gri bal\u0131k\u00e7\u0131 \u015fapkas\u0131n\u0131n kokusu, eski radyonun t\u0131n\u0131s\u0131 ve yirmi y\u0131l boyunca i\u00e7imde b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm o devasa \u00f6fkenin ac\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi duruyordu.\n\nMehmet bana y\u00fck olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\nMe\u011fer o yirmi y\u0131l boyunca, benim g\u00f6remedi\u011fim bir el, hayat\u0131m\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fck par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 tek tek toplam\u0131\u015f ve en a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fck\u00fc o, kendi omuzlar\u0131nda sessizce ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\n\nBa\u015f\u0131m\u0131 ellerimin aras\u0131na ald\u0131m. Arka balkondan gelen hafif bir r\u00fczgar, perdenin ucunu havaland\u0131rd\u0131. Has\u0131r sandalye bombo\u015ftu. Ama ilk defa, o sandalyenin orada duruyor olmas\u0131 i\u00e7imi yakm\u0131yordu.\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2207,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2206"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2206\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2209,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2206\/revisions\/2209"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}