{"id":699,"date":"2026-09-21T19:29:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-21T19:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/?p=699"},"modified":"2026-09-21T19:29:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-21T19:29:00","slug":"kocam-beni-her-gece-yok-artik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/kocam-beni-her-gece-yok-artik\/","title":{"rendered":"kocam beni her gece yok art\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style>\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-699 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/kocam-beni-her-gece-yok-artik\/5216326y-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/5216326y-1-150x150.webp\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-700\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-700'>\n\t\t\t\tMurat ve Elif, on iki y\u0131ll\u0131k evliliklerinde pek \u00e7ok zorlu\u011fu birlikte a\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir \u00e7iftti. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda mutlu ve uyumlu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorlard\u0131. Ancak son zamanlarda Murat\u2019\u0131n i\u00e7inde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir huzursuzluk vard\u0131. Elif, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam konusunda olduk\u00e7a titizdi. \u0130nternette g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc her yeni \u00f6neriyi ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor, faydal\u0131 oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri hayatlar\u0131na uygulamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. Bir s\u00fcre \u00f6nce do\u011fal bitkilerden haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zel bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 ke\u015ffetmi\u015fti. Bu kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi\u011fini, enerji verdi\u011fini ve insan\u0131 daha zinde hissettirdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. Murat ve Elif, on iki y\u0131ll\u0131k evliliklerinde pek \u00e7ok zorlu\u011fu birlikte a\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir \u00e7iftti. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda mutlu ve uyumlu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorlard\u0131. Ancak son zamanlarda Murat\u2019\u0131n i\u00e7inde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir huzursuzluk vard\u0131. Elif, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam konusunda olduk\u00e7a titizdi. \u0130nternette g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc her yeni \u00f6neriyi ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor, faydal\u0131 oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri hayatlar\u0131na uygulamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. Bir s\u00fcre \u00f6nce do\u011fal bitkilerden haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zel bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 ke\u015ffetmi\u015fti. Bu kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi\u011fini, enerji verdi\u011fini ve insan\u0131 daha zinde hissettirdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu.Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta Murat buna pek itiraz etmedi. Her ak\u015fam yatmadan \u00f6nce Elif\u2019in haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7ece\u011fi i\u00e7iyordu. E\u015fi iyi niyetliydi ve onun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc biliyordu. Fakat g\u00fcnler haftalara, haftalar aylara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck\u00e7e bu durum Murat\u2019\u0131 rahats\u0131z etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir ak\u015fam i\u015ften yorgun d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde Elif yine elinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir bardakla kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. \u201cHaydi, bunu i\u00e7meden uyumak yok,\u201d dedi g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek Murat barda\u011fa bakt\u0131. \u0130\u00e7indeki koyu renkli kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 sevmiyordu. \u00dcstelik ger\u00e7ekten i\u015fe yaray\u0131p yaramad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan da emin de\u011fildi. \u201cElif,\u201d dedi sakin bir sesle, \u201csence bunu her g\u00fcn i\u00e7mek zorunda m\u0131y\u0131m?\u201d Elif \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. \u201cNeden? Sana iyi geliyor. Daha enerjik g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsun.\u201d Murat ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131. \u201cBelki \u00f6yledir ama ben art\u0131k kararlar\u0131ma biraz da kendim y\u00f6n vermek istiyorum.\u201d Belki \u00f6yledir ama ben art\u0131k kararlar\u0131ma biraz da kendim y\u00f6n vermek istiyorum.\u201d Bu s\u00f6zler Elif\u2019i d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u00fc. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o g\u00fcne kadar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerin sevgi g\u00f6stergesi oldu\u011funu san\u0131yordu. Murat\u2019\u0131n ise kendisini bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda hissetti\u011fini hi\u00e7 fark etmemi\u015fti. Aralar\u0131nda uzun bir konu\u015fma ba\u015flad\u0131. Murat, son aylarda baz\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n zorunluluk haline geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlatt\u0131. Her gece ayn\u0131 i\u00e7ece\u011fi i\u00e7mek, her sabah belirli bir program\u0131 takip etmek, s\u00fcrekli yeni kurallara uymak onu yoruyordu. Elif sessizce dinledi.\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/kocam-beni-her-gece-yok-artik\/attachment\/178921\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/178921-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-701\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-701'>\n\t\t\t\tBen sadece senin iyi olman\u0131 istedim,\u201d dedi sonunda. \u201cBiliyorum,\u201d diye cevap verdi Murat. \u201cAma bazen iyi niyetle yap\u0131lan \u015feyler bile kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n fikri sorulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fck gibi gelebiliyor.\u201d O gece ilk kez birbirlerini ger\u00e7ekten dinlediler. Elif, sevginin sadece bir \u015feyler yapmak de\u011fil, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n isteklerini anlamak oldu\u011funu fark etti. Murat da e\u015finin t\u00fcm \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131n sevgiden kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc. Ertesi g\u00fcn mutfakta yeni bir d\u00fczen kurdular. Art\u0131k ne Murat istemedi\u011fi bir \u015feyi i\u00e7ecekti ne de Elif fikirlerini dayatacakt\u0131. Kararlar birlikte al\u0131nacak, her iki taraf\u0131n da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri \u00f6nemsenecikti. Aylar sonra Murat o ak\u015fam\u0131 g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek hat\u0131rlad\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorun asl\u0131nda i\u00e7ecek de\u011fildi. Sorun, konu\u015fulmayan duygulard\u0131. \u0130syan etti\u011fi \u015fey bir bardak kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m de\u011fil, kendisini ifade edememesiydi. Ve bazen bir evlili\u011fi g\u00fc\u00e7lendiren \u015fey b\u00fcy\u00fck fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klar de\u011fil, do\u011fru zamanda kurulan samimi bir c\u00fcmleydi. \u201cBeni de dinler misin?\u201d c\u00fcmlesi gibi\u2026\n\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":700,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-699","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/699","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=699"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/699\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":702,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/699\/revisions\/702"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/700"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=699"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=699"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=699"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}