{"id":735,"date":"2026-09-21T21:14:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-21T21:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/?p=735"},"modified":"2026-09-21T21:14:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-21T21:14:00","slug":"esi-onu-caresiz-sanip-evini-sevgilisine-vermeyi-planladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/esi-onu-caresiz-sanip-evini-sevgilisine-vermeyi-planladi\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015fi Onu \u00c7aresiz San\u0131p Evini Sevgilisine Vermeyi Planlad\u0131."},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t<style>\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-735 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/esi-onu-caresiz-sanip-evini-sevgilisine-vermeyi-planladi\/kk-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/kk-1-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-736\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-736'>\n\t\t\t\tAylard\u0131r a\u011f\u0131r bir sa\u011fl\u0131k m\u00fccadelesi veriyordum. Bedenim hareket etmiyordu, konu\u015fam\u0131yordum ve \u00e7evremdeki insanlar art\u0131k olup bitenleri anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. Oysa zihnim tamamen a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Odamda s\u00f6ylenen her kelimeyi duyuyor, bana nas\u0131l davran\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor ve \u00f6zellikle e\u015fim Cem\u2019in ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn biraz daha iyi tan\u0131yordum. Benim ad\u0131m Aylin. Mesle\u011fim mimarl\u0131kt\u0131. Hayat\u0131m boyunca projeler \u00e7izmi\u015f, b\u00fcy\u00fck yat\u0131r\u0131mlar yapm\u0131\u015f ve y\u0131llar s\u00fcren \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n sonunda \u00f6nemli bir servet olu\u015fturmu\u015ftum. \u0130\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz g\u00f6steri\u015fli ev de b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde benim eme\u011fimin sonucuydu.\n\nFakat Cem, art\u0131k benim iyile\u015femeyece\u011fime inan\u0131yordu. Bir \u00f6\u011fleden sonra hi\u00e7 \u00e7ekinmeden sevgilisi Selin\u2019i eve getirdi. Selin\u2019i sa\u011fl\u0131k personeline, \u201cEvde yap\u0131lacak de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri de\u011ferlendiren i\u00e7 mimar\u201d olarak tan\u0131tt\u0131. Fakat odama girdi\u011fi anda a\u011f\u0131r parf\u00fcm kokusu ve Cem\u2019le aras\u0131ndaki samimiyet ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlamam i\u00e7in yeterliydi.\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/esi-onu-caresiz-sanip-evini-sevgilisine-vermeyi-planladi\/esi-onu-caresiz-sanip-evini-sevgilisine-vermeyi-planladi\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Esi-Onu-Caresiz-Sanip-Evini-Sevgilisine-Vermeyi-Planladi-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-1-737\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt>\n\t\t\t\t<dd class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-1-737'>\n\t\t\t\tSelin yatak odama bakarak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyici bir ifadeyle, \u201cBuras\u0131 \u00e7ok kasvetli. Ba\u015ftan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek gerekiyor.\u201d dedi. Cem arkas\u0131ndan yakla\u015farak ona sar\u0131ld\u0131. \u201cNas\u0131l istersen \u00f6yle yapars\u0131n. Zaten yak\u0131nda buras\u0131 senin evin olacak.\u201d Her kelimeyi duydum. Ama tepki vermedim. Onlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde ben art\u0131k konu\u015famayan, hareket edemeyen ve gelece\u011fi hakk\u0131nda karar veremeyen biriydim. Sonra Selin \u00e7antas\u0131ndan metal bir mezura \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131 ve pencereleri \u00f6l\u00e7meye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bana ait yatak odas\u0131n\u0131 kendi zevkine g\u00f6re nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirece\u011fini Cem\u2019le konu\u015fuyordu. O an \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcm yerini kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa b\u0131rakt\u0131. Beni \u00e7aresiz san\u0131yorlard\u0131. Fakat bilmedikleri \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey vard\u0131. Bedenimi hareket ettiremiyor olabilirdim ama g\u00f6z hareketleriyle kontrol edebildi\u011fim \u00f6zel ileti\u015fim sistemi sayesinde h\u00e2l\u00e2 avukat\u0131mla ba\u011flant\u0131 kurabiliyordum. Cem ve Selin odadan ayr\u0131ld\u0131ktan sonra g\u00f6zlerimi a\u00e7t\u0131m. Kar\u015f\u0131mdaki ekran\u0131 etkinle\u015ftirdim ve y\u0131llard\u0131r mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 y\u00f6neten avukat\u0131m Vedat Bey\u2019e \u015fifreli ba\u011flant\u0131 \u00fczerinden ula\u015ft\u0131m. Vedat Bey ekranda g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde y\u00fcz\u00fc olduk\u00e7a ciddiydi. \u201cAylin Han\u0131m, bundan tamamen emin misiniz?\u201d diye sordu. \u201cEvlilik s\u00f6zle\u015fmeniz bunu yapman\u0131za izin veriyor. Fakat bu karar uygulan\u0131rsa Cem evden, \u015firket hisselerinden ve di\u011fer \u00f6nemli varl\u0131klardan hi\u00e7bir hak elde edemeyecek.\u201d Cevab\u0131m netti. EVET.\n\nArd\u0131ndan g\u00f6z takip sistemiyle b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sab\u0131rla talimat\u0131m\u0131 yazd\u0131m: \u201cT\u00fcm ki\u015fisel varl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131, evimi ve \u015firket hisselerimi kurulacak hayvanlar\u0131 koruma vakf\u0131na aktar\u0131n.\u201d Vedat Bey bir s\u00fcre sessiz kald\u0131. Sonra ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131. Belgeler haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Geriye yaln\u0131zca benim onay\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130\u015flemin tamamlanmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ekrana kesintisiz \u015fekilde on saniye bakmam gerekiyordu. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 katta ise Cem hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden habersizdi. Selin ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yla gelece\u011fini kutluyor, benim y\u0131llarca \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak olu\u015fturdu\u011fum hayat\u0131n yak\u0131nda kendisine kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. Ekrana odakland\u0131m. Bir saniye\u2026 \u0130ki\u2026 \u00dc\u00e7\u2026 Nefes almak giderek zorla\u015f\u0131yordu. D\u00f6rt\u2026 Be\u015f\u2026 Sa\u011fl\u0131k cihazlar\u0131n\u0131n uyar\u0131 sesleri y\u00fckselmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Alt\u0131\u2026 Yedi\u2026 G\u00f6zlerimi a\u00e7\u0131k tutmakta zorlan\u0131yordum. Sekiz\u2026 Dokuz\u2026 Tam o s\u0131rada Cem\u2019in merdivenlerden h\u0131zla \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duydum. On. Ekranda ye\u015fil bir bildirim belirdi: BELGE ONAYLANDI \u2013 VAKIF \u0130\u015eLEM\u0130 TAMAMLANDI. G\u00f6zlerimi kapatt\u0131m. Birka\u00e7 saniye sonra Cem odaya girdi ve cihazlar\u0131n neden uyar\u0131 verdi\u011fini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Fakat art\u0131k \u00e7ok ge\u00e7ti. Ertesi sabah sa\u011fl\u0131k durumum beklenmedik \u015fekilde dengelendi. Doktorlar hayati riskin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve tedaviye yan\u0131t verdi\u011fimi a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131lar. Haftalar s\u00fcren yo\u011fun bak\u0131m ve rehabilitasyon s\u00fcrecinden sonra ileti\u015fim yetene\u011fim daha da geli\u015fti. Cem ise h\u00e2l\u00e2 hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmiyordu. Ta ki Vedat Bey eve gelene kadar. Cem, miras ve mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek Selin\u2019i de yan\u0131na alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Hatta evde yap\u0131lacak de\u011fi\u015fikliklerin listesini haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Vedat Bey masaya kal\u0131n bir dosya b\u0131rakt\u0131. \u201cBu m\u00fclk art\u0131k sizin gelecekteki ki\u015fisel mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fildir.\u201d dedi. Cem\u2019in y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki rahat ifade kayboldu. \u201cNe demek istiyorsunuz?\u201d Vedat Bey belgeleri \u00f6n\u00fcne koydu. Benim sahip oldu\u011fum mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc geri d\u00f6n\u00fclemez \u015fekilde bir vak\u0131f yap\u0131s\u0131na aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u015eirket hisselerim de profesyonel y\u00f6neticilerin kontrol\u00fcne ge\u00e7mi\u015fti. Cem \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla, \u201cBunu kim yapt\u0131?\u201d diye sordu. Vedat Bey sakinlikle cevap verdi: \u201cKar\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d Cem donup kald\u0131. \u201cBu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Aylin hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapam\u0131yor.\u201d Tam o anda odan\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. Tekerlekli sandalyemde i\u00e7eri girdim. Hen\u00fcz konu\u015fmakta zorlan\u0131yordum fakat tabletimde \u00f6nceden haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m tek bir c\u00fcmle vard\u0131. Ekran\u0131 ona \u00e7evirdim: \u201cHareketsiz olmam, akl\u0131m\u0131 da kaybetti\u011fim anlam\u0131na gelmiyordu.\u201d Selin birka\u00e7 ad\u0131m geriye \u00e7ekildi. Cem ise yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 plan\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc sonunda anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Sonraki aylarda yollar\u0131m\u0131z tamamen ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Hukuki s\u00fcre\u00e7 sonunda Cem\u2019in mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00fczerinde bekledi\u011fi kontrol\u00fc elde edemeyece\u011fi kesinle\u015fti. Ben ise rehabilitasyona devam ederek hayat\u0131m\u0131 yeniden kurmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Kurulan vak\u0131f, sahipsiz hayvanlar\u0131n tedavisi ve g\u00fcvenli ya\u015fam alanlar\u0131na kavu\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in projeler geli\u015ftirdi. Y\u0131llarca olu\u015fturdu\u011fum servetin bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n l\u00fcks hayallerine de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ek bir faydaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesini g\u00f6rmek bana g\u00fc\u00e7 verdi. Bir mimar olarak hayat\u0131m boyunca sa\u011flam yap\u0131lar tasarlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Fakat ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m bana en \u00f6nemli yap\u0131n\u0131n insan\u0131n kendi gelece\u011fi oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011fretti. Cem beni g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sessiz kalmak, vazge\u00e7mek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Bazen insan hayat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli karar\u0131n\u0131 tek kelime s\u00f6ylemeden de verebilir. Ve benim i\u00e7in o on saniyelik sessizlik, eski hayat\u0131m\u0131n sonu de\u011fil, yeni hayat\u0131m\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 oldu.\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/dd><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":736,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foto-galeri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=735"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/735\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":738,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/735\/revisions\/738"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.denizcakmak.com\/hbr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}